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LEADERSHIP FOCUSES ON ROLE Often these do not integrate - gaps/ Mismatch SKILL Result - Leader is ineffective STYLE
Role encompasses; (i) to get the best out of the people you have - Empowering. (ii) to build potential for higher performance - Potential v/s Performance (iii) to develop leadership down the line - Dispensability & Succession Planing
TYPES OF LEADERSHIP
Transactional Manager Transformational Leader
* Long-term - even beyond his term * Global Perspective (Impact on Outside World) * Intangibles - Visions, Values, Relationship (Softisation)
Dimension of Continuum
Past Present Definite Transitional but gone
Junior Level Kind of work you do Operation - Maintenance Location - Internal Personal Intervention
Future Indefinite
As you move up Strategic External
Remarks
System &Style
Role Steps :
1. Clear vision of the Future - Long term & Strategic Goals. 2. Clarify, articulate & reaffirm values because they result in norms of behavior. 3. Creating a climate where people give their best. Unity of Purpose 4. Explains his own conduct - communicating the reasons behind various decisions; for present & future.
Role Segments
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Activities to improve current performance. Performance capacity improvement - for future through system improvements Improving Competence of people (Skills) Building Commitment - building a culture, creating value, do right things without your personal involvement. Self Improvement - understanding, articulation
Role Set
Boss
Not Direct Bosses
Outsiders
Manger/Leader
Peers
Subordinate Expectation of others from you in your position and you as a person. Hence negotiate your role bilaterally & multilaterally on time phase out & allocation of responsibility.
MIND SET
SELF AWARENESS MOTIVATION
SOCIAL SKILL
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
EMPATHY
SELF REGULATION
Emotional Intelligence
The survival skills of the new millennium have a different vocabulary and a different approach to life and success. It is no longer the head (the IQ) but a harmonious combination of head and heart (emotion) which brings success by conferring the ability to become master of your emotions. This capacity to handle emotions and manage relationships, be it personal or at work is termed emotional intelligence.
What kind of mother ? What kind of father ? What kind of employer ? What kind of employee ? What kind of storyteller ? What kind of driver ? What kind of gardener ? What kind of cook ? How well do you read ? How well do you write ?
attractive are you to the apposite sex ? good are you at languages ? good are you at mathematics ? good are you at drawing ? good are you at mechanical repairs ? good are you at remembering names ? well do you sing ? well do you dance ? well do you dress ?
What kind of world would this world be, If everyone in it were just like me ?
Now substitute the words "home," "school", "church / temple, "company," "community," and "nation" for "world" to round our your personal self-improvement programme.
WHO ARE WE WHO WE THINK WE ARE WHO WE WANT OTHERS TO THINK WE ARE ACTUALLY WHAT OTHERS THINK WE ARE
REDUCE THE GAP AND INCREASE THE OVERLAP BETWEEN THESE FOUR.
ARISTOTLE'S CHALLENGE
Any one can become angry - that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right-degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way This is not easy.
ARISTOTLE, The Nicomachean Ethics
If we happen to over react to anger or any other feeling, we are being driven by impulse
ANGER
A natural emotional response to cope with
threat hurt violation frustration
The Stimuli 1. The extent of the threat, hurt, violation & frustration 2. The cause of the damage or frustration 3. The likelihood of trigger to anger Assertive Anger - managing anger positively and constructively - Assertive - Ethical - Non-violent - Responsible - Goal directed
The The The The The The The The The The
desire for self preservation emotion of love emotion of fear emotion of sex desire for life after death desire for freedom of body and mind emotion of anger emotion of hate desire for recognition & self expression desire for material gain
Self-Regulation
trustworthiness and integrity comfort with ambiguity openness to change strong drive to achieve optimism, even in the face of failure organizational commitment
Motivation
Empathy
Social skill
Emotional Literacy
* Ability to speak about emotions in three word sentences beginning with "I feel........................" * Similar to concept of "I messages" * I feel....................... I feel like.................... criticised unimportant I feel that................... disrespected bored I feel like you ........ (This is a you message in disguise)
Components of EI
Self-awareness. Knowing how you feel in "real-time" Emotional literacy. Being able to label emotions precisely. Being able to talk about feelings with others Empathy and compassion. The ability to feel and understand the emotions of others. Balance. Being able to make decisions using a healthy balance of emotion and reason. Responsibility. Taking primary responsibility of your own emotions and happiness. Not saying that others "made" you feel the way you feel. Knowing how you and others feel and what to do about it.
A Simple Definition of El
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Respected Acknowledged Supported Helped Trusted Appreciated Important Special Irreplaceable Useful Needed Valued & valuable
Self- Planning
Self- Competence
Self-Development
Self- Management
PERSONAL RENEWAL
PHYSICAL
Exercise, Eat Healthy Foods, Manage Stress.
SPIRITUAL
Meditate, Pray, Read Inspirational or Sacred Literature, Recommit to Principles and Values.
SOCIAL/EMOTIONAL
Build Friendships, Give Service, Listen Empathetically, Create Synergy.
MENTAL
Read, Visualize, Plan, Think, Write, Develop Talents and Learn New Skills.
Need
tolerance
Performance/well-being
Arousal
Graph of the relationship between level, of arousal and human performance or wellbeing